• xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    8 months ago

    My strategy (especially since I got married) is to just have a single plate and a single bowl. These get washed/rinsed whenever I want to put food in them (I do discard visible waste after a meal). It’s helped me both in terms of not having a pile of dishes that scares me and in terms of not getting stuck in analysis paralysis if all the dishes are dirty and I’m hungry. I actually have a visually distinct plate I use and try my best to never use a different plate to eat. I’d recommend giving it a try.

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      8 months ago

      I’ve been trying to get my SO to agree to getting rid of all the plates and cups except for what we use hasn’t worked yet I should just go solo and take your recommendation it’s a good recommendation

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        8 months ago

        I’m in the same situation - we have a lot of dishes in our house and my partner can manage with multiple dishes… so I have my chosen dishes and then we have a pool of dishes for them to use - they’ve actually struggled with this same issue (they’re not diagnosed but might be ADHD) so while they use a rotation of plates and bowls they have adopted “the chosen coffee mug” to keep from getting overwhelmed by piles of mugs on random surfaces in their office.