• Nythos@sh.itjust.works
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    11 months ago

    Simply asking someone for their number is not harassment.

    Repeatedly asking for someone’s number after being told no is.

    There isn’t any nuance to this situation.

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      11 months ago

      Telling someone they’re beautiful when they think you’re gross is creepy/harassment.

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        11 months ago

        “when they think you’re gross”

        How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?

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          11 months ago

          That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.

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        11 months ago

        It’s okay to talk to women if you’re a male model but stay the fuck away if you aren’t. Got it.

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          11 months ago

          Or a female model. I’m certainly not here to discourage lesbians!