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  • I wonder what story the shills will spin:

    • “All Chinese acshually wanted pictures of Xi and Mao but the Christian church forbade it, so this is acshually freedom”
    • “They weren’t really Christian to begin with”
    • “There are no Christian churches because if you search for them on WeChat there are none”
    • “Only ‘idols’ are ordered to be removed. But Xi and Mao are not really idols like Jesus and the virgin Mary. They are very different and are a totally different culture. They are supreme leaders. Everybody has pictures of them in their home but it is not a religion.”

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    3 months ago

    I just keep editing this comment trying to make it more positive and it keeps backfiring, sorry.

    You don’t have to. It’s exactly the point I was trying to make.

    Anyways, I feel for you. But I often recommend going out and hanging out with friends over professional help. Nothing ever gets better if we wait for it or want other people to fix it for us.

    I’m sorry I can’t really help you.









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    Ah, so you’re including abuse. Well abuse is a no go ofcourse. All the rest is just something you’ll have to live with and first reflect upon yourself. If somebody suddenly respects you less, maybe you’re not being respectful either. Regarding the unhappy argument. I find that extremely selfish. My friends are not MEANT to make me happy. They are meant to be there when I’m unhappy. Sometimes they’ll have to “make me unhappy” to make me realize my mistakes. That’s what friendship is all about. If somebody drops you for being at your worst, they are worse.


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    t the end of the day, all human relations rely on a cost/benefit analysis. If I’m losing more than I’m gaining from this relationship, why should I continue it?

    I would drop a person that thinks like this in an instant.

    I also don’t think you’re doing that person any favors by ignoring their bad behavior.

    Nobody said anything about ignoring. People can help people, yet lately they only think of themselves.


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    3 months ago

    When somebody is going trough a mental crisis, I also shun them into loneliness. I only want good vibes! /s

    The only thing that matters between friends is real vibes, like truth, respect and understanding of pain. Sometimes we do indeed have to set up a boundary, but not in the general sense as this Twitter quote claims. There is no black and white, and kicking people away for going trough a hard time is not healthy in the long run whatsoever.