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  • As someone with ADD I experience the flip of this. I’m stuck in a world that is not used to running at 200% which is where I operate. It’s been a lot of work but consciously slowing down because I need to understand people normally burn out if running over 100%.

    It’s a struggle. As an ex once explained using a garden analogy. I am over watering the garden because it’s all I know but I need to understand not all gardens need heavy watering.

    So yeah, ADD sucks. I want to stay at warp 9.9 but the rest of the world can’t handle it.




  • I mean I understand but at the same time I could never have those rules I expect to be challenged and I expect other people to be challenged otherwise how do people with asinine opinions change?

    Case in point my daughter’s best friend has parents who are anti-vax you best know that is a button I am pushing consistently and firmly. I may not be able to change the parents but I ain’t letting that child be indoctrinated.



  • I will say this in my bluntly antiquated way (47 man).

    I kissed my buddy in high school because fuck it it was a dare. Didn’t like it it’s fucking weird. I wear pink. Love pink. I’ve painted my nails, dyed my hair, wore a dress before. I do all that because I know I’m straight. It’s hilarious watching less secure people do juggling exercises in their heads when I know I’m going home and I’m fucking chicks.

    My current gf is far more conservative than I am so I’ve toned down a lot but my joke has always been my grandma thought I was gay and asked my cousin once. He told her I’m not because he’s walked in on me so many times having sex with girls lol.

    Moral of the story, don’t give a fuck what people think. Do you and if doing you is being gay then be fucking gay. Own it. Trust people like me will have your back if some dickhead pushes back.

    I’m with John Waters. We need to bring perverts back into fashion.





  • Bingo. I will say my mum absolutely hates how liberal I am with swears in my house and around my kids. “It’s not how I raised you”

    I repeatedly tell her we all swear. I can’t put the genie back in the bottle. What I can do is provide my kids a safe space and teach them how to understand context around swearing and when it’s acceptable.

    Edit - I don’t understand why some people are so puritanical over words.