The thread talks about what happens after marriage. I suggest not marrying people you haven’t been vulnerable in front of.

Yeah sorry, if you don’t get why those parts of those papers are relevant there’s probably not much I can help you with there :) I’m quite convinced you have no interest in the actual topic - you’re performing a well known debating technique that stems from the need to avoid cognitive dissonance. As long as you can fault find sources - in any way - you can conclude that the premise in question is false and thus continue believing what it now is you need to believe for your own sanity’s sake.

Enjoy.

If you ask for scientific backing it’s a bit rich to then complain on you not being able to read said papers. However, let me tell you about sci-hub:

https://sci-hub.se/https://doi.org/10.1177/0959353517727560

The “Analysis and discussion” heading is interesting reading.

This paper is also relevant:

https://sci-hub.se/https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/07448481.2021.1927049

Women (M = 1.46, SD = 1.83) were more likely than men (M = 1.83, SD = 1.16) to believe that being ready to have sex and their partner’s desire for sex are important to consider in relationships (t(254) = –2.863, p < .01).

Not fully convinced you’re discussing marriage like the rest of us here tbh

Are you interested or did I just hit too close to home for your liking?

https://eprints.leedsbeckett.ac.uk/id/eprint/4406/

Look at the demographics of those who create, share and upvote memes from the man’s (this thread) and the woman’s point of view.

Entirely possible - yes. Statistically likely - no.

It’s funny because any man stating “this is true” etc is just telling on themselves. If the physical attraction was there before marriage the only reason it would disappear after marriage is that one person is suddenly not “putting in the effort” any more.

That effort doesn’t start with a bj.

For the non-Swedish readers: Yes, we’re not outraged if kids happen to see nipples or hear dirty words. They turn out just fine.

Actually, we’d claim they turn out better than if you believe they need to be protected from absolutely everything :P If a Swedish kid points to that popsicle and asks what it is I’d say below the age of ~6 we might skip over the reality but above that we’d tell them what it is with the comment that it’s supposed to be funny for some.

YMMV

Yes madam ( Notion online solutions Pvt Ltd.) is a customer focused tech platform, which aims to disrupt every service sector and provide complete transparency in each and every services on our platform with the help of technology . For us - the customers comes first , employees second , and we comes in the end .

It went from bad to worse there in the ass. Sorry, end.

https://www.crunchbase.com/organization/yes-madam

It’s that the game, story, or environment is being sacrificed to shove a political message down your throat.

… said by people who only know of this because today we talk about that message. The same people who loved Starship Troopers without realising it’s a tale about the dangers of fascism. Who cheered Fight Club not realising it criticized male stereotypes. And lauded the Fallout video game series even though it on purpose allows same sex relationships since Fallout 2.

Sheep. Led by Russian propaganda filtered through their current favorite “I tell it like it is”-influencers.

Ex global Head of Software here:

No.

Modafinil and Dexamphetamine sure - but have you tried Methylphenidate then?

(Parent with ADHD kids here)

While Modafinil has support in the literature I don’t think it’s prescribed officially for ADHD, and due to the different way they work the top choice for ADHD is usually Methylphenidate rather than Amphetamine.

Whatever works for you is the best for you though, I was just a bit surprised :)

Many of Yandex’s employees resigned in protest, accusing the company of serving as a tool of Kremlin propaganda and actively concealing information about the war.

https://www.zois-berlin.de/en/publications/zois-spotlight/the-sad-fate-of-yandex-from-independent-tech-startup-to-kremlin-propaganda-tool

Despite fixing the issue, Zendesk ultimately chose not to award a bounty for my report. Their reasoning? I had broken HackerOne’s disclosure guidelines by sharing the vulnerability with affected companies

Regardless of everything else they should be kicked out from HackerOne since it’s clearly Zendesk not being truthful here.

There is no Librewolf without Firefox.

Only poor people need to empty the lawnmover of gas. Rich people use Aspen fuel (alkylate) and don’t need to.

… if you configure to use their lookup server.

I don’t consider those comments regarding Matrix as problematic. Don’t use someone else’s server if you don’t trust them - including a third party lookup server.

/selfhosting Matrix

Just clarifying for the ones who don’t know: Element is a Matrix client.

Well I mean murdering someone breaks the very definition of libertarianism so you can be very sure they’re just using that moniker because it fits whatever they’re really trying to accomplish.

the maximum freedom for each individual to follow his own ways, his own values, as long as he doesn’t interfere with anybody else who’s doing the same.

https://www.hoover.org/research/take-it-limits-milton-friedman-libertarianism

But you’re absolutely right that a lot of people who are today clearly cheering for fascists used to call themselves libertarians.