Amen! 46 and happy to confirm, although for me the break point was at 30 when my first child was born. An earlier breakthru was around 27 when doing my second outing of zen meditation and realising that my thoughts are not me, but more like the wind on my face, they come and go.

So my 5 euro-cents on this: become a parent or meditate to accelerate the process :)

I first thought this was the fuckcars sub. (which deals not with vehicles particularily suited for coitus, in case anyone wondered)

They generally leave the shitty bits to more advanced learners.