Mama told me not to come.

She said, that ain’t the way to have fun.

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Cake day: June 11th, 2023

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  • Will the risk be higher during Trump 2.0

    Why would it?

    I think you’re paranoid and irrational, and should probably step away from social media and go talk to some actual Trump supporters. That’s not me, but my family largely voted for that clown, so I think I know a thing or two about what his supporters want.

    In essence, they want Trump to cut spending, stop drug trafficking, and create jobs. I think it’s far more likely that he cuts the FBI and related law enforcement and potentially merges them than to put them on the attack. He cares more about stopping illegal immigration than spying on residents, so that’s where his attention will be.

    FOSS

    FOSS + self-hostable is always the right answer. I don’t think who the President is matters all that much because data requests are an agency level thing and not something the President or even the cabinet member is involved in (outside of perhaps very high profile issues).

    If it’s not on your machine, you won’t know if the server admin has been forced by the courts to give up the data. I use a VPS, but it doesn’t actually store anything, it just forwards packets to my computer on my network, so if LE wants my data, they have to get it from me directly.

    If you’re paranoid about the government spying on you, it doesn’t matter who’s in the Oval Office, what matters is if they can get access to your data without you knowing. So my tier list for this is:

    1. Self-hosted, FOSS, E2EE with no data stored on the server (e.g. Simplex)
    2. Self-hosted, with data stored on the server (e.g. Matrix) - only if it’s on your LAN
    3. FOSS client, E2EE (e.g. Signal)
    4. Hosted in a country with strong privacy protections and no agreements with your country for exceptions (e.g. Proton)

    Pretty much everything else is unacceptable IMO.



  • As someone with a family with young kids, it makes even less sense. Kids will order chicken nuggets, mac and cheese, or hotdogs or something, which are expensive at restaurants (>$5 usually), cheap at home (like $2), and easy to make (~10 min)

    It literally takes longer to order than to cook IMO. For each of those meals, here’s the process:

    1. Prep for cooking - about the same time as entering an order, less if kids get to pick drinks and sides
    2. Wait
    3. Finish (add sauce, mix, etc) - about the same as unpacking and distributing the doordash stuff

    And it costs less than half as much. We keep easy meals in the freezer if it has been one of those days and we need food to be ready in 15-20 min. I made orange chicken tonight, and with cooking rice in the rice cooker, active time was 5 min (wash rice, preheat oven, prep cooking sheet), and we had food about 25 min after starting. Total cost to feed 3 kids and 1 adult (SO was out) was ~$10. If I ordered the same thing, it would’ve been $30 if I picked up or $40-50 delivered. Oh, and no fighting about sodas, we just had water.




  • There are cheap, single serving meals, such as:

    • baked potato - extra lazy version is 6 min in the microwave, add toppings
    • oatmeal - overnight oats, microwave (3 min, water shouldn’t quite cover oats), etc
    • sandwiches - lots of options; freeze extra bread and cheese
    • eggs - scrambled, fried, boiled; eggs last weeks

    I got through college cooking stuff like this. It was cheap, quick to make small portions, and didn’t require many seasonings. I lived on sleek something like $45-50/month, which covered the vast majority of my meals.