I’ll let my life fall apart from neglect, but heaven forbid someone else become slightly inconvenienced!

Exactly. It is frustrating sometimes though knowing exactly what is wrong with my brain and why I struggle and yet having such a hard time dealing with it.

In hindsight this maybe would be better for the lemmy.world ADHD community as this one is mostly meme, I’ll cross post but lmk if it’s worth removing or just leavjng

I think the problem with simple things like this are not that they don’t work, but that the problem arises in the actually doing of the things.

Personally my primary problem from ADHD is executive dysfunction, and it is SO hard to convey to people/advisors and such that yes, if I did all these “easy” solutions it would help, but the problem is the doing of the thing, creating a bootstrapping problem. To do the productive work you need to use x strategy but you can’t do x strategy because brain says no.

I think if as you have you can make these simple things habit it will help immensely, but as you said it takes a lot of willpower.

Yep, works! Thanks!

A small part of me wants to see the thread that prompted this…

Yeah that’s fairly textbook procrastination and then deadline stress - driven productivity, which is fairly common for ADHD people. Not enough to prove it on its own, but if you also identify with a lot of other things in this community it may be worth looking into

A few other examples off the top of my head that I have:

• executive dysfunction (trouble starting tasks, even that you ‘want’ to do
• often abandoning hobbies and personal projects for new, interesting ones
• trouble staying focused on tasks that dont have that immediate deadline pressure
• trouble forming habits
• often fidgeting/stemming when not thinking about it

And reminder that even if you don’t have stereotypical ‘hyperactivity’ symptoms you still might have a form of ADHD, for example I don’t, for me it just manifests as often fidgeting, but not much beyond that.

Yea its a meme of the format of the TikTok ban message, though there is also a sub-joke is the PID being how the US’s political parties swing back and forth, which is in the part where TikTok referred to trump planning on revoking the ban, and that it just needs to wait for it to finish swinging back right.

Seems ideal for the age of shooting pistols out of biplanes at each other

Idk, but I have the same. Scrolling through the tracking methods the only ones with high uniqueness were hash of canvas fingerprint and hash of webGL for me. According to it I still have strong protection Firefox + ublock on mobile though

Just 404s now D:

As a midwesterner, I will die on both hills, that it’s the wind that gets ya in the cold and that the humidity is what gets ya in the hot

And scientifically/biologically both are true, because the wind takes the warm air from above your skin immediately and the humidity prevents you from sweating

Same lol, was about to post the same thing

I think it would be mixed feelings of omg big pretty explosion and oh god oh fuck the world is ending

I think because simpleX is more open source, self-hosted, and maybe slightly more anonymous. Not sure how the usability trades off for that if at all because I haven’t used it (I mainly use signal and discord)

It also doesn’t seem to be a mass migration by any means, just that simpleX is a bit better if you are super hardcore about your privacy.

Watching the full/raw debate? Absolutely, besides a few random people maybe. Since good clips and headlines about the debate should reach some undecided voters at least

(Edited for spelling)

As an outsider to a lot of such corporate things it sounds like they both suck a lot, just in different ways.

Gotta say, it was quite a good video. I think I watched either most of all of it over the course of a few days to a week a while ago.

Exactly. When discord updated their mobile UI everyone immediately hated it cuz different. There were legitimately some poor decisions made, but then they went and reverted like half of it after people had started to get used to it. For example, I got used to and liked where they moved dms to and they reverted it back, but kept having to tap on the name of a channel to view the users in it instead of just swiping left.

Edit: and I’m also now used to the bad things they kept.

I don’t actually know but it is fairly likely that the definition of ‘man’ in the law is defined as any person. It is that way in the US at least, though most new laws and such use person there are quite a few old laws that use such wording to describe any person.

I’m pretty sure its the usage of “me think”, which is not standard English (although methinks together is more acceptable interestingly), as well as the use of ‘feels’ when grammatically it should be ‘feel’.

To be honest it’s not that big of a deal though

Edit: also there should probably be a ‘was’ in “as a guy that [was] also suicidal…”