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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • Think of it as a mask. All your life you’ve had it on because you were taught to believe it. It’s how society functions, right?

    Now you realize you could take it off, but it’s very hard to. What kind of world is it then? We will find out, of course.

    There’s a Jules Pfeiffer (rip) play/movie called Little Murders that kind of deals with this. Be forewarned, it’s a very bleak and dark comedy.



  • Until you know what was eaten, try to stop beating yourself up.

    Dogs eat things. It’s in their nature. If they eat a sock and it blocks them up, that’s bad. But keeping all socks from them is tough. And they like to eat weird things.

    Your job is to give them a good life and to try to keep them safe. You can’t demand perfection from yourself, and if your dog could understand, they wouldn’t blame you.

    Finally, if you made a mistake, you can use this as a learning experience and do better in the future a bit. The alternative is closing yourself off to love out of fear.

    I did this. One of my cats got out on New Years and was hit by a car.

    Im the one who lets the dogs out, and he often snuck out when the dogs go out. I didn’t notice.

    I will always have to live with that.

    But I’m reveling in the love I get from my other pets, not pushing them away.