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Cake day: July 25th, 2023

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  • People have been hating Swift for decades now. They were hating her for writing too many relationship-related songs even before the American left revived.

    She’s an easy target because her target demographic is teenage girls, and anything / anyone beloved by teenage girls MUST necessarily be gay and worthless.

    See also: Justin Bieber, the Backstreet Boys, and the Jonas Brothers.

    I highly suspect people joined the left and transferred their hatred from, “Taylor Swift the musician for stupid, hysterical girls, who I hate” to, “Taylor Swift, the billionaire,” without once examining the lens through which they first started hating her. And now she gets more “anti-billionaire” hate than Jeff Bezos?

    It bothers me.

    Misogyny is a tool of capitalism, and to quote Lorde: the tools of the master will never dismantle the master’s house. No one is destroying capitalism by weirdly fixating on Taylor Swift and her fans “because she’s a billionaire” while criticizing her more than basically all other billionaires.

    I look forward to the day I see a leftist meme reminding me “you can’t love Bruce Springsteen (1.1b) or Jay-Z (2.5b) and still be a leftist.”

    Until then, I’m not taking lectures on leftism from people who haven’t deconstructed their own feelings of hatred and superiority towards teenage girls.

    Edit: I hope I didn’t come across as angry at you in particular. You don’t seem to be joining in the hypocritical, unnuanced hate.



  • I realized in a reddit argument a while back that one huge difference between Trump supporters and the rest of us is: Trump supporters expect less from Trump. Hold him to a lower standard than they hold themselves or non-supporters to.

    In the argument, I had a supporter tell me that “raking the leaves” was advocating wildfire management – including controlled burns. And the person followed it up with remarks along the lines of, “you should have been smart enough to know that’s what he was saying.”

    Which was crazy to me because:

    • they were measuring my intelligence by my ability to come up with numerous unique rephrasings and potential meanings to Trump’s words
    • they were scoring higher than Trump by their own intelligence metric
      • Trump could only come up with “raking the leaves” and the commenter came up with “as a country, we should be putting more resources into wildfire management”, a much more coherent and intelligent phrasing
    • in expecting me to be able to read multiple meanings into “raking the leaves”, this person was ALSO expecting me to score higher on this measure of intelligence than Trump. And calling me stupid for not outscoring Trump.

    Basically told me that if I wasn’t smarter than Trump, I was stupid.

    I pointed this out to them and never got a response.

    Anyways, different standards. According to Trump supporters:

    • if you’re no smarter than Trump, you are an idiot;
    • if you’re no kinder than Trump, you are sadistic and malicious;
    • if you are no more effective than Trump, you are useless,
    • But Trump is the smartest, kindest, most valuable person there is.




  • that indecisiveness would be taken into account in a professional screening

    These words have been helpful to me. I kind of stopped worrying about it after reading this, and just started focusing on getting myself a referral and appointment. It’s ridiculously slow getting any kind of appointment through my healthcare provider (and I still haven’t seen them yet) but I appreciate not having to worry about “should I be preparing for this?” in the interim.