Undiagnosed here, seeking some inspiration and will to not lose hope.

Had anyone successfully gotten in tune with your ever changing hyper fixations?

  • If so, how long do your fixation periods last?
  • Do you have a structure or benchmark after which you can effectively “close that chapter”?
  • What strategies do you have to nudge yourself towards topics which will be meaningful in the long run?

I tend to go from rabbit hole to rabbit hole but it never feels like I’m in control. These fixations never produce any meaningful outcomes and always have a cost which I pay for by neglecting other aspects of my life.

It is a superpower and a weakness as you all probably know. It’s great for expanding your interests and appreciating life through different perspectives. I don’t want to lose it and want to get into some harmony with it. Anyone had any success?

Thank you :)

  • MyNameIsIgglePiggle@sh.itjust.works
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    6 days ago

    Nope, yesterday I was telling my wife how my pile is absolutely overflowing and I’m drowning and overwhelmed.

    Today I started a whole new business.

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      5 days ago

      Oof the urge can whelm… stay strong!

      Good luck with the business🤞 Maybe the external accountability helps keep the momentum going!

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        3 days ago

        Thanks! Yeah I already own a distillery now it looks like I’m also getting into personal health products.

        I’m a serial entrepreneur so this is just par for the course. There’s a feeling I get when it about to happen again, but this time I was like “not now I’m overwhelmed!!!” But you can’t do much to stop it.

        Ultimately because I have other things filling my cup I will have to do this differently, which might actually be a really good thing - instead of having the attitude “do it all myself” it’s gonna be “get help and outsource”