Them: …uhh yes?

Me: Pushes it back I’m allergic

I like to cook and sometimes people call me “chef” and I always correct them.

“Cooks prepare food for people they love, chefs prepare food for people they hate”.

I also dislike the term chef, bc the professionalization of the gendered activity “cooking” makes is acceptable for a man to do, but my family isn’t ready for that conversation.